I literally cannot tell you married men how jealous I am. Well, maybe I could. But I'd prefer not to...
I literally cannot tell you married men how jealous I am. Well, maybe I could. But I'd prefer not to...
Let me tell you a story my friend. An eyewitness account of marriage. ..[snip]..
I totally disagree with anything you just posted ^^. If you dont put in any effort this might be the case. If you met the wrong woman this might be the case too.
I totally disagree with anything you just posted ^^. If you dont put in
any effort this might be the case. If you met the wrong woman this might
be the case too.
But most of my married friends, and myself included have a great love
live. Dump money on hobby's and what not. While still being with your best friend (wife).
I totally disagree with anything you just posted ^^. If you dont put any effort this might be the case. If you met the wrong woman this mi be the case too.
Atreyu's opimion is his own to share!
I see both sides of this, because I have experienced both sides of this. Speaking for myself that has been married three times.
That isn't to say that normal good relationships don't go through ups and downs. That is life, but there is a big difference between dysfunctional relationships and good relationships..
I literally cannot tell you married men how jealous I am. Well, maybe I could. But I'd prefer not to...
Next guy to mention even the month of February deserves a thorn in his side...
McDoob wrote to All <=-
I literally cannot tell you married men how jealous I am. Well, maybe I could. But I'd prefer not to...
Next guy to mention even the month of February deserves a thorn in his side...
What boggles me that there is usually not a word of work or investing in. Its always just things go bad. It doesnt work like that.
Not gonna lie, didn't read all of that...
You can only make me aware of what I already wanted...twenty years ago...
I totally disagree with anything you just posted ^^. If you dont put in any effort this might be the case. If you met the wrong woman this might be the case too.
McDoob wrote to Atreyu <=-
Not gonna lie, didn't read all of that...
You can only make me aware of what I already wanted...twenty
years ago...
She stole my heart when I took her V-card...
I am too old to think that you've not been in my shoes...but,
you've never met Her, either....
Trust me, this isn't a casual thing. Please, tomorrow, remind me
how stupid I sound!
Chandra. From this moment, how can it feel so wrong?
Shit...I thought I said I was going offline...I should've done
so....
I totally disagree with anything you just posted ^^. If you dont put in effort this might be the case. If you met the wrong woman this might be case too.
Its just a story...
Probably a good time to put the crack pipe down for a while.
Let me tell you a story my friend. An eyewitness account of marriage.
Sure, the idea of marriage is wonderful. Love and sex. Sex sex sex. Fuck all morning. All afternoon. All night. She tells you she loves you and
it really "means something". The honeymoon phase. *That* is what you
To say nothing about how some married women lose their looks, there is no more incentive to remain attractive for you, because what for? The marriage was accomplished... like some sort of mission in a tactical combat unit.
One thing to consider, its less, much less of a problem to transition to single to married, than to reverse that decision. You're better of single than marrying the wrong person. Far better off.
Not gonna lie, didn't read all of that...
You can only make me aware of what I already wanted...twenty years ago...
She stole my heart when I took her V-card...
I am too old to think that you've not been in my shoes...but, you've never met Her, either....
Trust me, this isn't a casual thing. Please, tomorrow, remind me how stupid sound!
Chandra. From this moment, how can it feel so wrong?
On 01-30-22 13:02, boraxman wrote to Atreyu <=-
Let me tell you a story my friend. An eyewitness account of marriage.
Sure, the idea of marriage is wonderful. Love and sex. Sex sex sex. Fuck all morning. All afternoon. All night. She tells you she loves you and
it really "means something". The honeymoon phase. *That* is what you
And so on.
Yes, unmarried men, the grass does appear greener on the other side,
but Atreyu's story, is a common experience.
One thing to consider, its less, much less of a problem to transition
to single to married, than to reverse that decision. You're better of single than marrying the wrong person. Far better off.
Who is the right person? Not necessarily the one that initially
appears to be.
I would dress better if I wasn't married because I wouldn't constantly
get "why are you dressing up, were only going to..." comments.
Weatherman wrote to Opicron <=-
What Atreyu described is very true and real when in a bad relationship
or marriage. What really sucks is eventually it seems normal and don't realize it isn't normal. Just like growing up in a bad dysfunctional home.
boraxman wrote to Atreyu <=-
I would dress better if I wasn't married because I wouldn't constantly
get "why are you dressing up, were only going to..." comments.
Probably a good time to put the crack pipe down for a while.
^^
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The next time you think about someone who is 'gifted', or who 'has the gift' do me a favour? Stop calling it that. It's as much curse as gift. Having ful recall of every millisecond of your entire life, with 4K VR clarity, isn't something I'd wish on my worst enemy.
Me neither, I have the same problem, eidetic memory. Its the worst and
can really drive a person to madness, almost along the lines of tinitus
or misophonia... the irony being my love / admiration for recorded sound.
I know you likely wrote this after a few pops but it reads like you've been insulted by someone or recalling a particular hurtful moment of the past, unfortunately it may not really fit well with the "fun" part of
Fsx.
Consider for a moment that when you begin your post with a
negative/somber tone after drinking, its not likely to get positive or sympathetic reactions.
Again, I try not to be online when I drink. I know that only evil fills my brain. But it's also hard to tell yourself "NO! \(@_@)/" when you're drunk.
Please, once again, accept my apology. I cannot promise not to do it again, but I can promise I'll never forget.
Shut the computer off, put headphones on, gently lower the tone-arm on your favourite vinyl LP and chill out in bed. Put on some stupid TV show while listening to music and see if anything syncs-up. Assuming you have
a hi-fi system in your bedroom?
You will notice I'm not one to tell you to stop drinking or drugs. Its your life and I believe you are roughly my age, old enough to not need people on some silly net to hold your hand or telling you what to do or when to stop.
No apology necessary. I get it... and, been there, done that, except on some occasions took things far worse than on some silly message net. And paid the price BIG time on "hangover Sunday".
can really drive a person to madness, almost along the lines of
tinitus or misophonia... the irony being my love / admiration for
recorded sound.
The annoying thing about tinitus is it's always worse when you really
need to get to sleep and can't as
everything is to quiet and the tinitus comes roaring in like a steam
train blowing it's whistle while heading
right for your head!........ *(&^*&^&*^&^
More importantly, I hope I've not annoyed anyone else with my repeated stupidity.
The annoying thing about tinitus is it's always worse when you really need t get to sleep and can't as
everything is to quiet and the tinitus comes roaring in like a steam train blowing it's whistle while heading
right for your head!........ *(&^*&^&*^&^
It took therapy for me to realize how normalized a dysfunctional, emotionally and esteem-killing marriage had become, and it took
fatherhood to realize that the relationship wouldn't let me be the father figure I wanted to be for my son to drive me to move on from my first marriage.
My son turned 18 this summer and I celebrated my 10 year anniversary with my new wife. It all worked out pretty well, I think.
Shut the computer off, put headphones on, gently lower the tone-arm on
your favourite vinyl LP and chill out in bed. Put on some stupid TV show while listening to music and see if anything syncs-up. Assuming you have a hi-fi system in your bedroom?
You will notice I'm not one to tell you to stop drinking or drugs. Its
your life and I believe you are roughly my age, old enough to not need people on some silly net to hold your hand or telling you what to do or
when to stop.
You're smart enough to run a BBS so you know how to sort this out.
No apology necessary. I get it... and, been there, done that, except on
some occasions took things far worse than on some silly message net. And paid
the price BIG time on "hangover Sunday".
Dude. The next time you want to post whatever, tell you what... you pick
up the phone and call me first. 416-939-5430. Anytime.
I can straighten out your "evil thoughts" in 2 seconds.
As a friend.
I have my government-listening-appliance aka Amazon Echo with a stupid little
app that plays all sorts of white-noise, rainfall, storms, even the sounds of
a server room if I want.
Those sounds are played at full-volume when its time for me to crash out.
Helps tremendously....
Dude. The next time you want to post whatever, tell you what... you pick up the phone and call me first. <redacted>. Anytime.
I can straighten out your "evil thoughts" in 2 seconds.
As a friend.
I have my government-listening-appliance aka Amazon Echo with a stupid little app that plays all sorts of white-noise, rainfall, storms, even
the sounds of a server room if I want.
Those sounds are played at full-volume when its time for me to crash out.
Helps tremendously....
McDoob wrote to Atreyu <=-
You will notice I'm not one to tell you to stop drinking or drugs. Its your life and I believe you are roughly my age, old enough to not need people on some silly net to hold your hand or telling you what to do or when to stop.
Ay, and I'd probably resent it if you did. That wasn't my point:
expect me to sound stupid sometimes.
The annoying thing about tinitus is it's always worse when you really
need to get to sleep and can't as
everything is to quiet and the tinitus comes roaring in like a steam
train blowing it's whistle while heading
right for your head!........ *(&^*&^&*^&^
The annoying thing about tinitus is it's always worse when you really need to get to sleep and can't as
everything is to quiet and the tinitus comes roaring in like a steam train blowing it's whistle while heading
right for your head!........ *(&^*&^&*^&^
Its never been that bad for me...I mean, yeah, it can be distracting,
when I get that tuning fork in my ears, but maybe I've just never heard
it in the silence before sleep? I would certainly find that annoying, if it happened often.
McDoob
The annoying thing about tinitus is it's always worse when you
really need to get to sleep and can't as everything is to quiet
and the tinitus comes roaring in like a steam train blowing it's
whistle while heading right for your head!........ *(&^*&^&*^&^
Its never been that bad for me...I mean, yeah, it can be distracting,
when I get that tuning fork in my ears, but maybe I've just never
heard it in the silence before sleep? I would certainly find that annoying, if it happened often.
The annoying thing about tinitus is it's always worse when you
really need t get to sleep and can't as everything is to quiet and
the tinitus comes roaring in like a steam train blowing it's
whistle while heading right for your head!........ *(&^*&^&*^&^
I have my government-listening-appliance aka Amazon Echo with a stupid little app that plays all sorts of white-noise, rainfall, storms, even
the sounds of a server room if I want.
The annoying thing about tinitus is it's always worse when you
really need to get to sleep and can't as everything is to quiet
and the tinitus comes roaring in like a steam train blowing it's
whistle while heading right for your head!........ *(&^*&^&*^&^
I've had tinitus since at least I was a teenager. Not really sure how
I got it or when I really noticed it, but since then I've always slept with a fan on.
If the fan turns off for whatever reason (power outage, someone
switches it off, etc) I find the silence quite unsettling, not to
mention annoying because of the high pitch whistle always present in
my ears.
I have my government-listening-appliance aka Amazon Echo with a stupid little app that plays all sorts of white-noise, rainfall, storms, even the sounds of a server room if I want.
I've had a few people say to try something like that. I've just been to lazy to try it yet. The next time it's bad,
I should give it a go...
I've had tinitus since at least I was a teenager. Not really sure how I got it or when I really noticed it, but since then I've always slept with a fan
Ever since I was young and grew up with computers in my room. I'm used to sleeping in data centers.. :)
That is my same plan after working all day.. The only part of driving to wor each day that I miss is not having my "music/tunes" time. So now, I do that with some good headsets and zone out. I'm listening to some thrash tunes right now as I type this.
Add me to that list... I did many things in my upper teens that I remember were bad, and I'm sure many more that I don't remember that were worse. Thi is why I personally don't drink liquor anymore.
I've had mine since childhood... and was notorious for all sorts of
weird ear infections, sinus problems, anytime I caught a cold it
*always* plugged up whatever those tubes are that run from your
inner-ear to the throat. Drainage or whatever it is.
On 01-31-22 15:35, McDoob wrote to All <=-
The next time you think about someone who is 'gifted', or who 'has the gift', do me a favour? Stop calling it that. It's as much curse as
gift. Having full recall of every millisecond of your entire life, with
4K VR clarity, isn't something I'd wish on my worst enemy.
There are some memories that are supposed to fade with time. That's literally how 'time heals all wounds', no?
Don't blame me for trying to destroy my mind with drink and smoke. Many
of you literally cannot understand. And to me, YOU are the gifted ones! (o_O)
And, just so we're clear here: the only crack (pipe) I would ever put
my mouth on lies between a woman's legs... t(-_-t)
On 01-31-22 17:04, McDoob wrote to Atreyu <=-
Please, once again, accept my apology. I cannot promise not to do it again, but I can promise I'll never forget.
On 01-31-22 19:10, McDoob wrote to Atreyu <=-
More importantly, I hope I've not annoyed anyone else with my repeated stupidity.
On 01-31-22 19:17, Atreyu wrote to Vorlon <=-
I have my government-listening-appliance aka Amazon Echo with a stupid little app that plays all sorts of white-noise, rainfall, storms, even
the sounds of a server room if I want.
On 01-31-22 20:35, Weatherman wrote to Atreyu <=-
Add me to that list... I did many things in my upper teens that I remember were bad, and I'm sure many more that I don't remember that
were worse. This is why I personally don't drink liquor anymore.
On 01-31-22 19:16, Atreyu wrote to Mcdoob <=-
Dude. The next time you want to post whatever, tell you what... you
pick up the phone and call me first. 416-939-5430. Anytime.
I can straighten out your "evil thoughts" in 2 seconds.
On 01-31-22 20:44, Weatherman wrote to Atreyu <=-
I have the Google government listening device, and use Home Assistant
to play white noise each night starting at 10pm in all the bedrooms.
It really does help.. I can't sleep with total quiet, either.
Ever since I was young and grew up with computers in my room. I'm used
to sleeping in data centers.. :)
On 02-02-22 10:14, Vorlon wrote to Atreyu <=-
I've had a few people say to try something like that. I've just been to lazy to try it yet. The next time it's bad,
I should give it a go...
Atreyu wrote to Vorlon <=-
I have my government-listening-appliance aka Amazon Echo with a stupid little app that plays all sorts of white-noise, rainfall, storms, even
the sounds of a server room if I want.
Sporathan wrote to Atreyu <=-
That was decades ago, and I finally cleared up my ears & sinus a few
years ago by guitting wheat & gluten.
With me, it was simply preferring a clear head in the morning that led
me to
quit the drink. My therapy of choice for dealing with psychological
issues is
exercise and hobbies, along with the occasional social coffee. :)
Atreyu wrote to Vorlon <=-
I have my government-listening-appliance aka Amazon Echo with a stupid little app that plays all sorts of white-noise, rainfall, storms, even
the sounds of a server room if I want.
Those sounds are played at full-volume when its time for me to crash
out.
Weatherman wrote to Atreyu <=-
That is my same plan after working all day.. The only part of driving
to work each day that I miss is not having my "music/tunes" time. So
now, I do that with some good headsets and zone out. I'm listening to some thrash tunes right now as I type this.
boraxman wrote to McDoob <=-
Mine sounds like a high pitched, sometimes pulsing whine, the kind some old CRT's could make.
There seems to be more "wheat sensitivity" going around lately.
I also find it interesting that people who travel to other countries
more also report that they don't seem to be sensitive to the wheat products made in those other countries.
However, there is the problem of being "California Sober" but as with anything in life, moderation is the key :)
My uncle used to joked that he should "drink in moderation". He looked for "moderation" on the map and couldn't find it anywhere. So, he just kept drinking.
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